Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Friday, June 12, 2009
Do you reallly think you're important?
There are some people in this world that believe they're more than others. And this only reflect back on them.. BE HUMBLE!!
I've had a temp position for a year now and there's only positive things to be said. Except, there's this guy who thinks he's the "king" or whatnot. Going around saying stuff to irritate others. Just let me say, please BOY, spare me that attitude. You think you're something you're not. And going around saying that you delete your facebook friends who write blogs. And still say to my face that you read some in mine, OH two faced are you! That's just a wrong! I get that your intention may was to get me to write about you. But I won't budge, to anyone. An if you think you can stand and tell what I can and cannot do, you're wrong again! It's people like you that makes this world insane!
Because you got rejected by one of my colleagues at the Christmas party, you should really feel small! And then after that turn around and say that "it's best we don't do this, because I'm an important person here." When I heard this story I almost died from laughter, so pathetic!
...You know who you are...
Don't believe you're better than others, we're all humans! Remember that!
Copyright 2009 Lady AhY
I've had a temp position for a year now and there's only positive things to be said. Except, there's this guy who thinks he's the "king" or whatnot. Going around saying stuff to irritate others. Just let me say, please BOY, spare me that attitude. You think you're something you're not. And going around saying that you delete your facebook friends who write blogs. And still say to my face that you read some in mine, OH two faced are you! That's just a wrong! I get that your intention may was to get me to write about you. But I won't budge, to anyone. An if you think you can stand and tell what I can and cannot do, you're wrong again! It's people like you that makes this world insane!
Because you got rejected by one of my colleagues at the Christmas party, you should really feel small! And then after that turn around and say that "it's best we don't do this, because I'm an important person here." When I heard this story I almost died from laughter, so pathetic!
...You know who you are...
Don't believe you're better than others, we're all humans! Remember that!
Copyright 2009 Lady AhY
Thursday, June 11, 2009
Dating..?
It's an new era and it's online. These days we communicate more here on the web than ever before. You can get in touch with people all over the world and it's awesome!
So when you make a new profile on a site, remember to show the best of you. And have in mind that every site it's an potential dating site. Because men and women see opportunities in everything. And won't nudge to try something new. But still there are rules and regulations on these sites.
When you're adding a person you don't know, write a little note. This goes for the communities. But it's the dating services it's about today. So here goes everything, almost. Be honest, write something that catches the eye and the attention. To only compliment a person, it's probably not the best way. Like you have to write something that stands out a little. So that he/she will remember you or think you're interesting.
"DON'T settle on the first guy you go out with. Even if
you like a guy and hit it off after the first date, continue
to date other men until you are in a committed relationship
with a man who truly meets all your needs.
Otherwise, you risk putting all your eggs in one basket (so
to speak) with a guy who may or may not be the one for you...
and maybe even missing the opportunity to meet the man who IS the one."
I'm guessing desperation can be seen online as well, so keep your life busy and don't sit around wait for a guy. If he hasn't decided that he wants to be with you, date other men! And be honest about your intentions towards the person you're seeing! It creates a lot of confusion and stress if you give out mixed signals.
Some guys thinks that they can have their cake and eat it too, but that's wrong. When you're not giving someone all they deserve, they often turn to others. So if you meet someone you really like and been seeing them for a while, tell them and don't think that things will change. There are a lot of guys that's afraid of loosing their "freedom", but it's not like that. If you're with someone that really cares, they always wants the best in life for you. They don't want to control you or tell you what not to do. Even when you're in a relationship, you're still to individuals! It's not important to spend every minute together, but knowing that you've got someone that loves you behind your back. I would never deny a man anything, but I do expect the same back. A relationship aren't a prison, it's a beautiful thing between two people who loves and trust each other.
Copyright © 2009 Lady AhY
So when you make a new profile on a site, remember to show the best of you. And have in mind that every site it's an potential dating site. Because men and women see opportunities in everything. And won't nudge to try something new. But still there are rules and regulations on these sites.
When you're adding a person you don't know, write a little note. This goes for the communities. But it's the dating services it's about today. So here goes everything, almost. Be honest, write something that catches the eye and the attention. To only compliment a person, it's probably not the best way. Like you have to write something that stands out a little. So that he/she will remember you or think you're interesting.
"DON'T settle on the first guy you go out with. Even if
you like a guy and hit it off after the first date, continue
to date other men until you are in a committed relationship
with a man who truly meets all your needs.
Otherwise, you risk putting all your eggs in one basket (so
to speak) with a guy who may or may not be the one for you...
and maybe even missing the opportunity to meet the man who IS the one."
I'm guessing desperation can be seen online as well, so keep your life busy and don't sit around wait for a guy. If he hasn't decided that he wants to be with you, date other men! And be honest about your intentions towards the person you're seeing! It creates a lot of confusion and stress if you give out mixed signals.
Some guys thinks that they can have their cake and eat it too, but that's wrong. When you're not giving someone all they deserve, they often turn to others. So if you meet someone you really like and been seeing them for a while, tell them and don't think that things will change. There are a lot of guys that's afraid of loosing their "freedom", but it's not like that. If you're with someone that really cares, they always wants the best in life for you. They don't want to control you or tell you what not to do. Even when you're in a relationship, you're still to individuals! It's not important to spend every minute together, but knowing that you've got someone that loves you behind your back. I would never deny a man anything, but I do expect the same back. A relationship aren't a prison, it's a beautiful thing between two people who loves and trust each other.
Copyright © 2009 Lady AhY
Tuesday, June 09, 2009
Thoughts..
I'm not big on feelings, I'd rather give an impression of not caring. But I do. And when everything comes to an end, I wish I was!
I've been in love, but never really expressed my real feelings to the person it's been about. As some of my friends, they easily tell others how they feel, what they want and so on. I just say "whatever". I have a friend that recently got back together with his girlfriend. They haven't been dating that long, for as me who dated this guy for months now. And I'm really at that point that I may want something out of it. But how do I do this, do I tell him how I feel? The first thing that pops in my mind is to break it off! But my mom gave me this advice about not putting all my eggs out. And I must say that for as long as you're not in a relationship for real, why should you sit around and wait for someone?
And then we analyze, everything, up, down and from side to side. And If there's more room, we'll do it over and over and over.. Why do we destroy ourselves like this?
But every time I decide to confront another person, it always goes wrong. This is one of the reason why I don't plan things. And I miss out on the good ones?
Why is this so hard, what do you girls say to these guys to get them to be with you? I'm missing this gene.. Or maybe I've gotten to independent over the years. That I won't let a person under my skin enough so they'll feel appreciated and loved by me?
Copyright © 2009 Lady AhY
Monday, June 08, 2009
I really want you to really want me, but I really don't know if you can do that?
When you sit alone in your own world and let your mind flow freely, is that when you decide? Decide to be with someone that means something to you?
I recently had a lot of mixed feelings about this subject, it's not easy. Are you supposed to follow your head or your heart? What does really count in the end? Is it the companionship or is it that you can just lie there quietly together without saying a word and just be comfortable?
In the end we all just wants to be accepted for who we are. Be loved, appreciated and feel safe. Nevertheless is this, love, a subject that we all have different views on from time to time. And yes, it does change. I can only speak for myself, but haven't you found yourself thinking, "if it wasn't for you I would want kids, get married and so on."?
I've been speaking to some of my friends lately, for instant my ladies. We are all agreed on that it's not easy trying to sort things out. But we learned along the years that we shouldn't take things to seriously. Just enjoy and make the most out of our lives while were here! So live it up ladies!
And for you whom still sit alone and contemplate about what to do or not to do, just do it! Take a risk of faith and see what good comes out of it. Nothing will change.. There's almost certain that you won't fail and if you do, it's just to get back up and brush it off!
Copyright © 2009 Lady AhY
I recently had a lot of mixed feelings about this subject, it's not easy. Are you supposed to follow your head or your heart? What does really count in the end? Is it the companionship or is it that you can just lie there quietly together without saying a word and just be comfortable?
In the end we all just wants to be accepted for who we are. Be loved, appreciated and feel safe. Nevertheless is this, love, a subject that we all have different views on from time to time. And yes, it does change. I can only speak for myself, but haven't you found yourself thinking, "if it wasn't for you I would want kids, get married and so on."?
I've been speaking to some of my friends lately, for instant my ladies. We are all agreed on that it's not easy trying to sort things out. But we learned along the years that we shouldn't take things to seriously. Just enjoy and make the most out of our lives while were here! So live it up ladies!
And for you whom still sit alone and contemplate about what to do or not to do, just do it! Take a risk of faith and see what good comes out of it. Nothing will change.. There's almost certain that you won't fail and if you do, it's just to get back up and brush it off!
Copyright © 2009 Lady AhY
Friday, June 05, 2009
Thursday, June 04, 2009
When in love..
We all act differently. There's no manual or easy way out of this. For some being single to the bitter end is an solution, but I don't buy that. I'm guessing you who are fooling yourselves and other to believe this in reality miss having someone special. We all pair of because it's what's expected from us. But it's also because we want to. I personally want to have that special someone in my life. Making a life together, sharing experiences and love each other unconditionally!
But what's the difference between being in love and having a crush?
Copyright © 2009 Lady AhY
But what's the difference between being in love and having a crush?
Copyright © 2009 Lady AhY
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